Palm Beach Notes: The Tender Handoff—Two Sentences of Polished Etiquette
Tender transfers can feel cinematic or chaotic. Two simple lines keep the moment calm, safe, and dignified.
Most guests don’t need a lecture—they need clarity.
Say this (and only this)
- “One hand for the boat, one hand for yourself.”
- “Step where the crew points—then pause.”
It’s brief, memorable, and it makes room for the deckhand to do their job.
What not to do
- Don’t film while stepping.
- Don’t carry drinks in both hands.
- Don’t rush to be first.
The luxury version of safety
When everyone moves slowly and confidently, the transfer feels effortless—and effortless is the entire point.